Love Will Keep Us Together

Ivy:  Harvard's answer to Vampire Weekend is Chester French.  I can't wait to hear what the Yalies will do.

Faux:  I recently met Hilary of Fauxtobooth at the FCW brunch.  She takes fun pictures around the city with her DIY photobooth.

Indexed:  Jessica Hagy's blog and soon to be released book is like Clarissa (explains it all).

Switch:  Sometimes the main page of this blog will be blog posts, and sometimes it will be tumblr posts. It will mostly look the same, just the content will vary on how lazy I am.

Deacon Blues

I got links. hot links...I would love a sausage right now.

Radio:  Pictures and a recap of the Cupcakes Take The Cake Bloggers' appearance on The Frank DeCaro show. Vote today for Best Food Blog, so we can win a Bloggie!

Offline:  Met the wonderful Lauren and Scott from ThisNext at the Mandarin Oriental last night.
Check out my This Next recommendations: Nichelle Picks list, Cupcakes list and  Keeping Nickels list.

Swap:  I may or may not be going since I may go to Austin for some conference, but there's a clothing swap in Greenpoint on March 9.

Conference:  Speaking of conferences, I highly recommend the PSFK conference.  I am volunteering again this year. It's March 27.


Mansard Roof

Even though I am not in school or taking a class, I learn something new everyday.

Black Turtlenecks are often worn by cult leaders.

The Root just launched this week, but calling it "The Black Slate" is redundant and wrong.

I am not afraid to be on the bandwagon and say I like Vampire Weekend, but I feel like wearing Sperry  Topsiders when I listen to them.

Everything is next week:  Super Tuesday, Mardi Gras, Fashion Week, Chinese New Year.   I have to vote,  show my tits, look skinny, and celebrate the rat.   Busy!

Who's That Girl?

swap putty zipup

Amnesia:  If you enjoy ABC's "Samantha Who?" like I do, then you will love Sophie Kinsella's newest book, Remember Me? which is about a woman with amnesia who finds out that her old self was a bitch.  I just read an advance copy this weekend and it is great!

Bedridden:  Em & Lo's sex advice/culture blog, Daily Bedpost.

Dance:  Take a Hustle Workshop this Saturday for Beginners at Your Should Be Dancing.

Odd Couple: Ultimate Fighting Champ Matt Hughes  and my neighbor Michael Malice are hitting the road for their book tour promoting Made In America: The Most Dominant Champion in UFC History

The Sweetest Hangover

Cupcakes:  The pictures I took at the Cupcakes Take The Cake party are up on Flickr.

Chelsea:  BlogChelsea interviews Nancy Weber, the original life-swapper.

Cool:  Nate gives a shout out to Keeping Nickels.

Shining Star


new museum art, originally uploaded by candiedyams.

Bowery:  Last night, I went to the New Museum on Bowery and I love the building, but outside of a few pieces like the one pictured above, I am not so impressed with the art.

Book:  My friend gave me a copy of Blogging Heroes for my birthday.  The book interviews 30 top bloggers, and  from what I read of the book so far, the top bloggers say you have to passionate about something to blog.

Cup Runneth Over:  If Tanya from The O'Debra Twins tells you how disgusting "Two Girls One Cup" is, then I have no interest in seeing it WHATSOVER.

Pushin' On

chelseaschool2

Fashiony: Check out The Budget Fashionista's newly redesigned site, and read about a really cool recycled fashion line, William Good.

Funny: Chicks and Giggles every Tuesday at 8PM, and read 236.com, the new humor site.

Funky: Listen to Brit Alice Russell sing vocals on Quantic Soul Orchestra's "Pushin' On"  and Natural Self's "I Don't Need Trouble". I can't find free MP3s, so buy them off iTunes or download from eMusic.

What Cool Breezes Do

What's cooking:  The Professor (of WFMU fame) just launched two blogs, The Audio Kitchen and The Radio Kitchen.

What's keeping: Me. Check out my new header/logo on Keeping Nickels, designed by Shawn Hollenbach.

What's happening: My birthday is in exactly three weeks away. Whoa!  This pretty necklace is what I will probably buy for myself.  (via TechYum)

What's doing: Since I am not above asking, you can help me celebrate by coming to Chicks and Giggles on November 27 or donate to my beauty fund with a gift certificate to Sephora.  Since reading Beauty Confidential, I need a ton of products to keep me looking young.  [Black does crack...eventually]

Stars and Boulevards


chelseaschool1, originally uploaded by candiedyams.

Book: Ed Hamilton of the Hotel Chelsea blog has a new book, LEGENDS OF THE CHELSEA HOTEL: Living with the Artists and Outlaws of New York's Rebel Mecca. He is having a reading this Thursday at 192 Books.

Laugh: You know that Chicks and Giggles is every Tuesday at Ochi's Lounge. Come tomorrow and bust a gut!

Thanks:  ThisNext sent me a wallet from Portland-based DB Clay.

Thriller

No, you didn't stumble over to the cupcake blog. I want to wish everyone a Happy Halloween and the beginning of the super-busy fall social season.

I sniffed Jo Malone's Pomegranate Noir and I love it.

Non-sticky laptop: The Playboy blog is a great read.

Signature pieces: Jewelry from Lillot.

Battle: Poetry Vs Comedy is tonight. Halloween version.

Anniversary

Today is the fourth anniversary of Nichelle Newsletter.  Read my first post.

I went to 10022-shoe at Saks this afternoon since I was in midtown for a meeting.  It's the shoe department at Saks with its own zip code, however it doesn't even take up the whole floor. There were tons of pumps with red soles that I am afraid of even picking up.  I can't wear the sky-high heels, so Christian Louboutin is not for me.  In fact when I am an old lady, I will only wear Ferragamo flats. I saw them in the shoe department and I have fallen in love with their classic design.  Grosgrain ribbon rules!

Numbers

As a blogger, you get accustomed to checking stats.  As a bookkeeper, you always looking at numbers. Since  I am both, please forgive me as I indulge with this post.

Nichelle Newsletter: Blog will hit 4th anniversary next week.

Keeping Nickels: Blogging about bookkeeping and small business topics for a good solid year.

Cupcakes Take The Cake:  There are 402 members of the Cupcake Meetup Group, and there are 3009 members of the Cupcakes Take The Cake Flickr Group.  The blog will hit its third anniversary in December.

Chicks and Giggles
:  The show has been around for 3 1/2 years, has had over 100 women and a couple of guys performed and will debut at it new home, Ochi's Lounge, tmro at 8PM.

A Little Respect

USA! USA! USA....Rachel is quoted in USA Today about cupcakes.

Number #1: The Budget Fashionista is tops in traffic for all fashion blogs.

Cheap:  Housing Works (126 Crosby Street) is having an Open Air Book Fair on Saturday, September 29. Books, records, CDs are only $1. 

BTW: I will be appearing on the Food Network special, "Heavyweights", on September 29.  Check your local listings.

Lastly, it's like the Container Store for condoms: Devine Toys.  Get one for the next time, Madonna!

The Glamorous Life

Attended:  Glam party in Soho and chatted with Kathryn, Tia, Meghan and the Other Nichelle :)

Launched:  Another damn blog, Fashion Swap and Meet.  It's for my clothing swaps. The next one will be September 16 after Fashion Week.

Watched:  VH1's "The World Series of Pop Culture". I love it and Pat Kiernan is my hero.





All Star


DSC_6538.JPG, originally uploaded by ohyoucrazy.

Mate:  This weekend, I watched several episodes of "Confessions of a MatchMaker" and I love Patti Novak and her Buffalo accent.

Blog: Are you reading City Room yet? You should be.

Pawn: A new niche online community for chess players, Chess Park.

Trunk Fulla Amps

Vote for Lindsay's T-shirt slogan because I want to wear it during the douche days of summer! It was a nice afternoon which included window shopping and a stop in Chelsea to get some delicious cookies from the Treats Truck.  Look for the truck in the Lower East Side Friday evening.  It's perfect fare in case the munchies come early in the evening.

Speaking of cookies, I just got a very belated birthday gift that I love. (My birthday is in November)
In addition to a book, nail polish and cutesy band aids (?), I got SweetHoney DipChocolateBrownSugah.
That Carol's Daughter body butter makes me smell good enough to eat.

Plus, I met Whitney Matheson of Pop Candy tonight. She is super nice.  I also heard about a new documentary that will open this summer, Dr. Bronner's Magic Soapbox.  It will be playing at Cinema Village in a few weeks.

Fame

Bookmark:  DollyMix is  a Brtitish blog that really gets it.

Fame:  How famous are you? I am 1% famous.

Pedal:  If you love things with bicycles on them, then check out GirlsCanTell on Etsy.

Found Vintage:  I love the necklaces made by Samantha Tate  also on Etsy.

Fun, Fun, Fun,


IMG_0501.JPG, originally uploaded by heif.

Here's a great picture of Cupcakes Take The Cake bloggers Rachel, Allison and me from the cupcake picnic.

Encrypted

Spotted: Eric Bogosian in Barnes & Noble Union Square after the Ladies Who Launch book event.  The book, Ladies Who Launch: Embracing Entrepreneurship and Creativity as a Lifestyle  is out now.

Sample: Listen to African pop artist Wumni on NPR's "News and Notes"

Stolen: Someone with the domain name, VermontConnect is stealing my Keeping Nickels content. I did a domain registrar search using Whois, but the name is not there.   I think it is a spam blog.

Stop: To all the girls walking around wearing those shiny leggings from American Apparel. Stop wearing them! The shiny material looks heavy on even the most model thin girl so your legs look like sausages.

How To Save A LIfe

Lisa Congdon:  I stopped by San Francisco artist Lisa Congdon's art opening at Rare Device.  Her very cool show, Anatomie, is inspired by anatomy books.

Dod sees god:  Sampled a hot dog at Willie' s Dawgs in Park Slope ( 351 Fifth Avenue). The Mutt dog I had was very good. Plus, there's  a great selection of mustard and other condiments that I relish.

A blogger a day: I met Joyce Hanson of My Bad Girl Blog.

How Soon Is Now?

Yesterday, I volunteered all day for the first ever PSFK conference, and it was excellent!  The speakers and panelists were great. Congrats to Piers for proving that  idea and execution can be fast, good  and inexpensive.

Just gonna name check a few folks who presentations were cool. [Note: I didn't hear everyone since I was doing registration]

Allan Chochinov of Core 77
Floyd Hayes of Cunning
Doug Jaeger of  Happycorp
George Parker of  AdScam

Conference attendees were given action pads made by Behance (not Beyonce) to write on which were featured on Cool Hunting.   I drank a lot of Fred water as well.  It was good event, and I look forward to meeting more supercool people at the next conference.

That's The Way Of The World


DSC_0053, originally uploaded by Triborough.

The first ever NBC4 Blogger Summit was held last night at 30 Rock, and I was there along with about 130 bloggers. I ate shrimp, mingled and networked with people offline that I had only known online.

Afterwards,  a few bloggers grabbed a drink at Channel 4 where coincidentally the writers from SNL were huddled at a table in the back. [Seth Meyers looks kinda hot in a frazzled head writer way]

I Confess


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Here's a few of my favorite things:

Sometimes wearing two bold necklaces is much better than one. (See above picture)

The Knights of Prosperity is a hilarious sitcom! I watch it on ABC online.

FlyGirls, a fun stylish blog that I found on 55 Secret Street (Thanks, Nichelle)

Issy Salomon, a jewelry designer,  has fantastic vintage-inspired necklaces. He has a space at Edge NY.

Teaspoon

Borat has got to be the most hyped comedy ever, but he's great for Halloween.

Birthday party will be November 26.  Details TK.

I don't live in Harlem any more. I am couch surfing at the finest couches around New York City.

An update for those who miss the blog.  I will probably blog on Nichelle Newsletter until December 3 when the monthly typepad bill is due.  I may move to Vox or Wordpress, but paying for a blog is SO 2003.

One


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Web: This afternoon (what a f@cking beautiful day!) BVan and I attended the first annual One Web Day.   It was down at Battery Park and I ran into a few folks who on the internets including Craig Newmark, Amy Langfield , Paul, Jose,  JCN  and Mark (pictured above).

Geek:  Wifi Salon is providing wifi to Battery Park.

Fawn: Over the World Famous Bob Tonight at Mo Pitkins.

Like: LikeMind III was this morning. You gotta come next time!

Isn't She Lovely?


Cheese!, originally uploaded by Undiscovered Superstar.

Smile: Can you believe it? Adriana is 11 months old.  Read her blog!

Giggle: Chicks and Giggles  tonight, and we're celebrating Cheryl B.'s birthday

Read: How Bush Rules: Chronicles of a Radical Regime by former Clinton adviser Simon Blumenthal. I heard Sidney at a talk Monday evening at The Strand. Katrina Vanden Huevel from The Nation was the moderator.

Create: A cute, funny cupcake video.  Submit videos to Cupcakes Take The Cakes'  "Cupcake Idol".

Niche:  Speaking of niche blogs, read my blogger story on Toby Bloomberg's blog.

Drive


Clutch, originally uploaded by ONE/MILLION.

 

Laugh: The Complete Idiot's Guide To Jokes edited by Larry Getlen is now out. Many comedians that I know and love contributed jokes to the book.

Cash: Steve Rubel has aggregated a list of how to make money from your blog.

Skip:  Gawker "jumped the snark" with the Suri Cruise  and corny celebrity coverage.

Explode: I finally met the other Nichelle who blogs and she is supercool.

Crush: Stopped by the brand new R Bar on Bowery, and loved the fact that there are two stripper poles in the back bar. The decor is luscious red, too.

Flutter:  I am in love with the lovely clutch purses made by Socoley.  I can't decide if pewter or cherry red is my favorite.

Ring My Bell


Belle de nuit, originally uploaded by Sophie..

Spotted in DUMBO:

  • Bubby's on Main St (they are sponsoring the Third Annual Brooklyn Pie Social on September 23.
  • The future home of Powerhouse Books on 37 Main St. (see you soon, Miss Rosen)
  • Filming of "Law and Oder: Criminal Intent".

Spotted in Soho:
On Thompson Street, I saw the famous new Radar contributor Belle in the Big Apple right outside the Hat Shop.

Lush Life


streaks, originally uploaded by yinghao.

Bake: Cookie blog

Drool: All Angelina, All The Time.

Laugh: New comedy website, Daily Comedy.

Read: Michelle Embree's Young Adult novel, Manstealing For Fat Girls, a high school drama like no other.

See: Wonderful B/W New York City street photography exhibit at Photographic Gallery (252 Front Street).

Black & White


Black & White, originally uploaded by Thursd@y.

Two very funny blog posts about the differences between the Ebonies and the Ivories.

Dan Allen's Why Am I White?
Nichelle's PSA: Do NOT Touch A Black Woman's Hair EVER!


 

War

Gawker editors in their infinite wisdom has decided to ban me from commenting on their site simply because they claim that I was "blatantly and pointlessly name-dropping a party that she no doubt wasn't even invited to." 

This is not true.  Yeah sure I blatantly name-dropped, but I was invited and I attended the The Long Tail Party that was on Wednesday, July 12 at the Tribeca Cinemas. It was a fun party and I ran into several friends including Dens, Piers and comedian Jordan Carlos.

I am so pissed right now, and the truth is Gawker messed with the wrong chick this morning. This is War!

Actually, let's make cupcakes not war.

Update:  I have every right to name-drop ad nauseum, and people have every right to think it is ridiculous for me to do so. WTF?!  Everyone has a voice! Power to the People! [Imagine me pumping my fists in a cafe while drinking tea right now.]

I totally agree with fellow ex-communicated commenter, T. The blog commenting caste system that Gawker Media has established is messed up, and it flies in the face of the democracy of blogging. Like it or not, GM has become a blogging institution and if you look around you'll see that many of our institutions have already gone pear-shaped.

Fashion

Good news is contagious.  I love to tell people about the good stuff, and today I had a wonderful time at the lovely and informative Bloggers Who Brunch event that was organized by Lesley of Fashion Tribes and Pamela of Bag Trends. Sponsored by the Glam Network, the brunch started with mouth-watering  watermelon cocktails appropriately called "The Fashion Blogger".  Then me and the brunch attendees feasted on delicious vegetarian food at Counter (East Village Restaurant). My good friend Liza from Culture Kitchen was there and I was introduced to a group of really fun people including the following:

Danielle from Celebrity Babies and her lovely daughter, Anya.

Clare from Sense of Soot. She gave me great information about doing book reviews for  Sci-Fi and Mystery books.

Linda and Marlen from Girlawhirl.

Tia from The Quest For It.

Elke from The Beauty Newsletter.

Vera from I'm Not Obsessed.  She does a lot of contests! Click to win!

The speakers were great. Kathryn from the Budget Fashionista, Meghan from Miss Meghan and the fabulous Najwa Moses from Styleaholics whose fashion sense and personality explodes.  Forget the skinny blondes from Rocketboom, Najwa's video podcast, "The N List", is the bomb!

White Flag

File this under: "Oh No She Didn't!"

Remember back when Stephanie Klein was just a mere mortal New York blogger and her first taste of fame was when the  Guardian The Independent syndicated portions of her blog back in July 2004? 

Well two years ago, I posted this in response to a blog post of hers.

The Blogoisie.  Interesting people. Tech-savvy people.  Media darlings? Now we're getting press across the pond.  Greek Tragedy was featured as the "Queen of the New York Bloggers". I don't really have a problem with it since there's no competition. I met her a few times and found her to be really nice. However I have a bit of issue with a statement she posted.

"It's like seeing a black person at a Dido concert."

Black people (myself included) like Dido.  I bought her first CD about 3 years ago.  Greek Tragedy, we SO gotta hang out more. I have eclectic music tastes ranging from Dido to Sleater Kinney, Fishbone, Mary J. Blige and The Beautiful South. I am so not asking people to be PC on their blogs, but once it gets put on full blast to a newspaper, a red editing pen might be necessary. [especially the ones from that movie, Secretary]

Anyway, I just finished reading Stephanie Klein's Straight Up and Dirty, and in it she mentions this "Black people at a Dido concert" thing  AGAIN.  Taking in the full context, her comment is  a comparison that seeing redheads is as rare as seeing the aforementioned "BPAADC" anomaly. I totally disagree with the rare redhead thing especially in New York City, since I know at least a half dozen redheads.  I know two Matts, a Diana, a Brandy, a Carla, a Chris, an Alice and probably even more. Maybe it would be rarer to see a redhead at a Dido concert!

About the book, I found it hard to read because each chapter would go back and forth between her time with her husband and her time as a single divorcee.  It seemed like there were two books fused together but not neatly.  I felt that humor was forced and she violated the rule of three and alliteration was overused.

Money Changes Everything

Warning: This post is very blogger-incestuous insider stuff. You may want to roll your eyes instead of reading this.  OK, Jesse Oxfeld is out Gawker, and Alex (formerly known as TMFTML) is in. According to reports on Jossip and Fishbowl NY, the reason for the change is because Gawker will shift toward more celebrity gossip content.  Is it a coincidence that Jessica Coen wrote a piece in the New York Times’ Sunday Styles where she literally fellated TMZ, a guerilla gossip website that Gawker has linked to often? [BTW, TMZ is partly owned by AOL and AOL bought Weblogs, Inc last year]  The new direction is understandable given that new celebrity gossip sites are popping up everywhere and are generating so much ad revenue.

Why pick Alex Balk as co-editor?  I like Alex. Alex is both a high-brow and low-brow pop culture master.  In the past, his posts have illuminated readers about music, art and literary criticism. He is not a celebrity blogger, and to his credit, I am pretty sure he doesn’t give a damn about whether Britney and Kevin stay together.  I really miss TMFTML so if TMFTML comes to Gawker, then I will be ecstatic.  However if Gawker becomes just another celebrity gossip blog, then Denton & Co, becomes a follower not a leader.

About the shuttering of the other Gawker media sites Sploid and Screenhead, it is totally understandable.  Overhead costs are increasing as you pay bloggers an actual living wage, and the rent for office space on Crosby St is not cheap.

PS. WWD is hiring someone for the Memo Pad column. I think Jesse Oxfeld would be perfect for the job unless he is already on the phone with Kate Lee pitching a book.

Thank God It's Friday!


Funny, originally uploaded by candiedyams.

Cupcake Tonight, Cupcakes Take The Cake and A Hamburger Today are having dinner at Burgers and Cupcakes 458 Ninth Ave (between 35th and 36th). We're eating at 8PM, but get there early if you wanna sit by me and the CTTC bloggers.

New Blogs I like.

http://cheesaholics.blogs.com/

http://marktd.com - A Digg-like marketing and trend blog from the guy over at PSFK where anyone can post. [Go WEdia!]

Big Mouth

Press! I was interviewed by Natasha of the website, Daring Female. Read it here I talk about Chicks and Giggles and Cupcakes Take The Cake.

Speaking of Chicks, we got a fantastic show for you tonight so break out your Kangol and gold chains for Riff and Gigs Rap Attack. It's tonight at Mo Pitkins, 7:30PM. Competitive eater Eric "Badlands" Booker will be freestyling along with Carolyn Castiglia.

Speaking of guts, The Daily Gut is now live for your consumption.

The Morning Papers


Metro Article
Originally uploaded by alizinha.

Cupcakes Take The Cake is in the Metro today. Go grab a copy! It's free! Thanks to Paul and my cupcake co-bloggers, Ali-Z and RKB.

Papa's Got A Brand New Bag


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Originally uploaded by HamWithCam.

It's here! I got a brand new blog, Keeping Nickels, a small business accounting blog. Somehow I am going make a few nickels if people actually read the blog and click through, so please check it out so that I can keep my cell phone on!

BTW, my email buddy and AM New York columnist, Julia Allison, is now blogging.

Nobody Knows

Looking up the defnition of snark I find this:
Snark refers to a pejorative style of speech or writing.  It could loosely be described as irritable or "snidely derisive"

Looking up the definition of satire I find this:
Satire is a literary technique of writing or art which principally ridicules its subject (for example, individuals, organizations, or states) often as an intended means of provoking or preventing change.

Gawker employs snark. Dealbreaker does satire.  Will someone create a snark-to-satire translator for anything I missed?

Takin' Care Of Business


girly pic
Photo by Brian Van.

It is not up yet, but I figure I would leverage all the buzz about business and finance blogs by mentioning that I will be launching a blog for All Business called "Keeping Nickels". My blog would focus on how small business can keep nickels in their pockets as they manage growth, build a market presence and navigate the path to profit. If you are not familiar with AllBusiness.com, check it out! It is a great resource for small businesses. [URL TK]

Float On

Is this the craziest idea for a blog conference?  It's a four-day cruise in October with bloggers.  How much?  $1,295 per person!

Here's an explanation:
Our cost is reasonable given that you are getting a conference and a vacation.  Yes, a vacation.  You are not asked to pay for a hotel, your meals, and all of the other costs associated with just being in the venue and participating.  We want this to be a learning experience and not just a way to make money at putting on a conference.  We will be announcing ways for all of the participants and other bloggers to actually make money from the event as well.  It’s time to share the wealth and get the blogging community involved.

Will there be wi-fi all over the Royal Caribbean ship? All the food bloggers will sure be around for the midnight buffet.

Burn Rubber

I thought it would never happen to me, but I have hit the wall of blogger burnout. Others have fallen prey to the illness.  However, I won't stop blogging but I will revert back to the original format of Nichelle Newsletter which is a list of stuff that may be cool.  Consider me to be "a collander for your calendar".

Up this week:
Laughing Liberally on Wednesday (lineup includes Chicks and Giggles regulars Carolyn Castiglia and Laura Mannino) $10

Starshine Burlesque at Rififi on Thursday Creamy, Little 718, Dottie Lux and Tangerine Jones! $5

Jenis Famous' Regifting Comedy Show on Friday at Pete's Candy Store. Free (C&G regulars Rachael Parenta and Michelle Buteau will be performing.)

Saturday...I have decided to stay in.  Just got invited to a party in my hood.Everyone knows that New Year's Eve is for amateurs, so I plan to get up early on Sunday go for a walk aournd the park. Then I will pig out on a Mexican brunch at Blue Moon in Chelsea and pay $4 more for the unlimited mimosas.  I will be drunk around the time amateurs wake up in the afternoon. Yay Me!

Uptown Girl

Jen created a New York comedy lens on Squidoo. Like the online omnipresent Jen D, I also created a lens on Squidoo. It's called That City Girl, and it includes feeds from women who create things.
If you have suggestions for blog feeds and links, please let me know.


Ladies Night


Ladies Night
Originally uploaded by candiedyams.

Starting with the end of the night, I danced and sang along to the songs that Becca and Dunlap were playing. They were excellent DJs!  I talked to the Danish guys who were also at We Media, and I caught up with Carney and newlywed Eliot. It's ironic that I got the news about Calacanis and AOL at 12", not We Media. [the best gossip is shared at a bar]

Photograph


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Originally uploaded by brianvan.

Friday night, I went to Photobloggers 5.  After the event, we (Brian, Girly, Matt, Matthew, Franklin)checked out the Jen Bekman space above Fanelli's Cafe where there was an exhibition of the photobloggers' work was displayed. "Gilmore Girls'" Lauren Graham was there as well checking out the fascinating photos. Then we went downstairs and ate  delicious burgers and spotted Lauren Graham again at the bar. You could not miss our group. We were the obnoxious table of 7(including Lorenzo) with at least half of us taking pictures the whole time we were eating. Photobloggers Rule!

Count Me Out

On impulse I started another damn blog called Stop Counting.  The Stop Counting blog is all about the deconstruction of the myth that women have to "keep their numbers down" in order to be eligible girlfriends or wives.  If a guy asks you, "How Many?", then he's insecure.  No matter what the number, you won't win.  Men would prefer women to have sex amnesia of all past lovers.  Numbers don't really count anyway.  You can be a bad lay at lover #167 or at lover #3! 

By the way, for the record I have stopped counting. It's more than one but less than infinity.